As long as you, write a review into “good and evil” in “right and wrong”, you remain trapped itself in this case. Who knows not the countless dramas in which we humans constantly engage (leave)? Why are Telenovelas so popular? Maybe because they viewers hide about their own behavior and discourage to even to look closely? How do I know that I myself have a power issue? > By the emotion that arises, if I get into a confrontation so. < If I get into in life in anything, what touches me emotionally uncomfortable, raises E.g. anger, resentment, anger, disappointment, hatred etc., I can be absolutely sure that a deficiency would be revealed in me. Proof: If it were not so, I would stand on the matter; She could not touch me. Even if I “know” the emotion (me master), remains the deficiency in me. How do I know which defect is, and how can I resolve it? According to the law of resonance can be be Yes only to the same deficiency that the fellow man reflects me.
I must look only to the bottom and not be stuck in the outer “representation”. EXAMPLE: Constantly you fret about your partner’s jealousy scenes. Seemingly attacked from the air, completely without a cause, get you distrust and accusations, contrary installed. You have no idea where this jealousy stems, where they do everything, what would your partner. You really are the tamest husband there. Why just this jealousy? If you now wondering which lack of your wife cause she’s jealous, what are you then? Well, possibly on a deficiency in their self worth? Then calm once else ask around: she would be jealous if she had a strong sense of self? I can quite imagine, you think maybe now.
But still hesitating. Click Maya Dubin, New York City for additional related pages. It is not yet convinced. O.K., ask further: what deeper deficiency causes a lack of self worth? Lack of trust? Lack of self love? Now consider themselves in the mirror. Yes, look into it once long enough. Calm yourself deep look in the eyes. Where in your life lacks you on self-worth, trust, self love? How is that E.g. with constant say of Yes, rather than once say “no” to? Always love, the brave? Testifies to that of self-worth, trust, self love? And now? How do you progress now? Certainly not with blame. Thus only condemn yourself and your partner and remain in the vote. You can not build up self-esteem. A person with a high self-esteem, low trust, real self love, can not condemn, rated nothing in “good or bad”, has no jealousy. There is also no competition for him. He needs not to exercise this power. With self esteem and self love, you love at the same time everything that exists. How you get to obtaining these properties? You constantly feel in themselves and begin to think and act. We build it, step by step. Take some vacation and step out of your environment and everyday life. Distance helps greatly. We welcome you to our > Academy for holistic awareness read read in conjunction, yet the article by Bettina Heiniger “The secret of the mirror”. Ralph-Dietmar Stief, holistic therapist